Question

select the correct answer.

terry and pat are on their third date, and terry is pressuring pat to engage in oral sex. which statement is the first step in pat effectively refusing?
a. dont you know the latest statistics? oral sex is responsible for approximately 40 percent of the instances of hiv infection in our country today!
b. you know, id like to go back to that theater and see the second feature after all. we should probably call up some friends to join us.
c. terry, i will not engage in oral sex because i am not ready yet. i enjoy spending time with you, but i think we need to discuss our boundaries.

Explanation:

Effective refusal starts with a clear, direct statement of one's boundary, paired with a respectful explanation. Option A confronts rather than refuses calmly, Option B avoids the issue instead of directly declining, while Option C clearly states the refusal, gives a reason, and opens a respectful conversation about boundaries.

Answer:

C. Terry, I will not engage in oral sex because I am not ready yet. I enjoy spending time with you, but I think we need to discuss our boundaries.