Question

your friend jason is in a committed relationship with his boyfriend, carlos. they recently decided to have sex. jason tells you the following: \i had sex for the first time on my 16th birthday. carlos and i loved each other, so it seemed like the right thing to do at the time. since we were in a committed relationship, i knew using a condom wasn’t necessary. \once we began having sex, though, i felt like carlos wasn’t interested in spending time with me anymore. we never go to the movies or do any of the other things we used to do. all he seems to care about is spending time with my body.\ what would be the right way to support jason? check all that apply. ☐ remind him of the importance of practicing safe sex despite being in a committed relationship. ☐ explain that sex has emotional consequences that he might not have been prepared for. ☐ tell him to not worry; carlos loves him so it will probably get better over time. ☐ explain that even though he has already had sex, it is ok to change his mind. ☐ suggest that he talk to a trusted adult.

Explanation:

• Remind him of the importance of practicing safe sex...: Safe sex is crucial even in committed relationships to prevent STIs and unplanned situations, so this is valid.
• Explain that sex has emotional consequences...: Sex can bring emotional changes, and Jason may not have been ready for Carlos' shift in behavior, so this helps him recognize that.
• Tell him to not worry...: This is unhelpful as it dismisses his concerns about Carlos' behavior, so this is invalid.
• Explain that even though he has already had sex, it is ok to change his mind: Jason can decide to adjust his sexual choices later, and validating that autonomy is supportive.
• Suggest that he talk to a trusted adult: A trusted adult can offer guidance, especially if Jason is dealing with relationship issues or confusion, so this is valid.

Answer:

• Remind him of the importance of practicing safe sex despite being in a committed relationship.
• Explain that sex has emotional consequences that he might not have been prepared for.
• Explain that even though he has already had sex, it is ok to change his mind.
• Suggest that he talk to a trusted adult.