Question

ever since chloes parents announced their divorce, chloe has stopped talking to andrea. they talk about normal, everyday things such as school, but their conversation is lacking any personal sharing. andrea knows that chloe is hurting and wants her to feel comfortable opening up and talking about her feelings. what can andrea say to chloe to start a healthy dialogue?

• “i felt confused about my parents divorce and had no one to share my feelings with. im here for you if you want to talk.”
• “you dont trust me enough to confide in me. did i do something to you that makes you not like me?”
• “ever since your parents divorce you have been overly sensitive and moody.”
• “maybe you should find another friend that you can talk to.”

Explanation:

To start a healthy dialogue, Andrea should use empathy and share a relatable experience to make Chloe feel safe. The first option shares Andrea's own experience with a similar situation (parents' divorce, feeling alone) and offers support, which encourages Chloe to open up. The second option is accusatory, the third is judgmental, and the fourth dismisses Andrea's role as a supportive friend.

Answer:

A. "I felt confused about my parents' divorce and had no one to share my feelings with. I'm here for you if you want to talk."